It’s been a while since I’ve put a straight forward technical challenge on here, so here goes…
I read quite a thorough sort of blog recently about why foreplay is so important. Yes…yes…yes!!
If you are not enjoying sex, chances are it is because you are not being properly warmed up.
Can’t run a marathon without warming up your muscles first, right?
It’s pretty much as simple as that.
So I’m writing about.. as Fabienne in Pulp Fiction puts it… ‘oral pleasure’ for a lady.
If you’re a guy or gal who is not too sure about what you’re doing down there, here’s a quick and easy tip:
Just pretend as though you’re kissing her on the lips. The mouth ones, that is.
And by that I mean, literally, use the tongue kissing method on her clitoris and labia, and the entrance of her vagina.
Clearly every woman is different, but this is a pretty great starting point for further exploration. The combination of tongue action, suction and tenderness of spirit will get all the right muscles warming up beautifully.
Sometimes something is so simple you don’t even think of it. This is one of those.
2 comments
nancy says:
Dec 14, 2012
it really tells if a guy is doing it so you can praise HIS technique – it’s like he’s looking in the mirror. if his ego gets in the way of his (or her) “kissing” then it’s a dead-end street. but if the “other” is doing it according to our responses and little calls, then gosh and oh, glory!
K.L.A.W. Club says:
Dec 17, 2012
Good point Nancy. It is of absolute necessity to pay attention to what your partner seems to be liking. And up to the one being ‘kissed’ to communicate and not be a shy bird about crying out now and then